Cultivating relationships through conversation.
How well do we actually know the people in our lives? Their values, cultural perspectives, political views, and outlooks on life. Off The Record develops the best tools to help anyone start and carry conversations that strengthen communication skills.
Our Story
Off The Record was founded in 2023 by advertising creative Kate Terentieva. Before it was a card game, Off The Record was a page in Kate's Notes app, filled with 400+ questions she asked her clients to understand the souls of their brands. After witnessing cathartic conversations and developing deep relationships with her clientele, Kate realized she has a bigger solution on her hands. Since 2023, Off The Record has been the card game of choice for people who take connection seriously, looking to strengthen their communication skills to learn who people actually are.
the game that started it all...
Regular price
$35.00
A meaningful question isn't just a conversation starter. It's a bridge to trust, connection, and real relationships. Off The Record® is the card game that builds this bridge. Ready to dive deep? Each round, draw a card, featuring 2 thought-provoking questions. Start with the top question to break the ice or start a new topic, then follow up with the bottom question to explore deeper. Spark real conversations, ditch the awkward lulls, and uncover new layers – no surface-level chit-chat here!
- 45 cards, 90 questions – endless possibilities for connection.
- Original photography on every card.
- Easy-to-follow booklet included to guide the fun.
- Perfect for any interaction – no risqué or spicy questions.
Whether you’re with friends, family, dates, colleagues, or new acquaintances, Off The Record ® makes every conversation unforgettable and strengthens each connection.
On the air
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How to Move Beyond Small Talk: Building Closer Connections
Founder Kate joins Whitney Port to explore how authentic communication can transform both our personal and professional lives in a world that often keeps us at a distance.
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Pretty Marketable
Host Kim Crossman talks to creative director & founder Kate of Off The Record about how to conduct meaningful conversations and break through small talk. Tune in to get some great branding tips for small businesses.
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Connection Isn’t Complicated (We Just Make It Weird)
This episode is for you if you’ve ever sat at a networking event dreading the “what do you do?” convo, felt lonely in a room full of people, or just want to be better at making people feel seen (and also heard because that’s different).
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The Power of Deep Conversations
Kate has a passion for bringing people closer together through genuine dialogue. Even Jay Shetty uses these cards, so you know they’re something special. During our chat, host Cooper Chapman put Off the Record to the test—answering some of its thought-provoking questions himself. It got real! We also dive into why deep conversations are so important, how Off the Record came to life, and the impact it’s making.
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Creating Meaningful Adult Relationships
Our CEO Kate joins Love Is Blind's Kelly Chase to discuss the complexities of adult relationships and the importance of genuine connections. From the challenges of superficial conversations to the comfort of being prepared, Kate shares valuable insights into fostering real communication and understanding in both personal and professional spheres.
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Mastering the Art of Conversation
As much as we love to hate it, why is small talk actually the foundation for deeper, more meaningful connections? That's what host Becca Nicholls explores with our CEO Kate Terentieva on this episode of There She Glows.
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risky career moves & life-changing pursuits
After leading creative for brands like WhatsApp and Calvin Klein, our CEO Kate Terentieva pivoted from agency life to entrepreneurship. In this chat with Blair Badenhop, she talks about her rise to TikTok fame, building a product from scratch, and how she’s helping people have better conversations—one card at a time.
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Questions that Spark Connection
In this episode, Cortney Ostrosky sits down with the incredible Kate Terentieva, founder of Off the Record—a groundbreaking connection card game designed to revolutionize how we communicate and foster deeper, more impactful relationships. Kate brings her unique blend of creativity, passion for connection, and entrepreneurial wisdom to the show, and trust us—you’re going to love her vibe!
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How This Entrepreneur is Solving Loneliness With a Card Game
In this episode, Bridget & Lydia chat with Kate about how she got her start in the fast-paced world of advertising and rose to become a creative/art director for iconic brands like WhatsApp, Savannah Miller Bridal, and Lobos 1707. While working closely with founders and startups, she discovered her unique ability to turn small talk into meaningful conversation. That gift, combined with her years of creative experience, evolved into Off The Record, a card game that’s now sparking deeper connection across the U.S. and beyond.
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